ok, had to replace my iphone, still pissed about that but what can ya do?

Got the new phone and lights not coming on. finally realized that my location was pointing at my old phone not the new. Corrected that and lights still not coming on. Checked all my flows in Stringify and Lutron and they are set up correctly. Decided to connect the Nest and let it turn on my lights. Still no joy. Opened up the app and it said the lights are on but they aren't. Told Alexa to turn on the lights, typically takes three tries. What in the world am I doing wrong?